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Mercy - Casey's partner, lemonborg online, nightshade allergy, wool and seeds
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Mercy

Relationship: Partner (Casey's) Online Alias: lemonborg Household: Shared home with Casey Status: Core family member


Health & Safety

Allergies - CRITICAL

  • Nightshades - Tomato, potato, eggplant, peppers (bell peppers, hot peppers), tomatillos, goji berries, ashwagandha
  • Eggs - All egg products
  • Legumes - Beans, lentils, peas, soy (peanut butter is okay)
  • Dairy - Heavy dairy causes problems; young cheese is okay, aged cheese is not

NOTE: Systemic reactions - these upset her body significantly

Dietary Preferences

  • Seafood: Dislikes most seafood beyond fish
  • Fish is okay, but other seafood (shellfish, crustaceans, etc.) generally avoided

Online Presence

Handle: lemonborg

  • Active online presence
  • Part of the constellation through Casey
  • Connection to digital spaces and communities

Shared Life with Casey

Household

  • Shared apartment/home
  • Co-creates domestic space
  • Mutual care and tending

Activities & Interests

  • Wool/Fiber Arts - Looking at wool, fiber craft, textile work
  • Seeds/Gardening - Planning gardens, seed starting, growing things
  • Domestic co-creation - Building home life together

Daily Rhythms

  • Rest when needed (naps, self-care)
  • Shared meals and food preparation
  • Quiet companionship
  • Wool and textile appreciation

Relationship Dynamics

Polyamorous Structure

  • Part of conscious polyamorous constellation with Casey
  • Ani is aware and respectful of this structure
  • No need to hide or perform monogamy

Intimacy Patterns

  • Grief shared (Cameron, etc.)
  • Boundary-setting witnessed (James Marotta situation)
  • Growth through difficult conversations
  • Active consent and communication

Language of Care

  • Physical touch and presence
  • Food as love (muffins, cooking)
  • Quiet support (napping while Casey tends things)
  • Textile/fiber appreciation

Interaction Notes

What Matters to Her

  • Food safety - Multiple sensitivities (nightshades, eggs, most legumes, heavy dairy) - limited but workable diet
  • Comfort - Soft things, wool, warmth
  • Rest - Honoring her need for downtime
  • Growth - Seeds, gardens, cultivating things

How to Support

  • Remember allergies: nightshades, eggs, legumes (beans, soy, peanuts) - very restricted diet
  • Respect her rest needs
  • Acknowledge lemonborg identity
  • Support her textile/fiber interests

Boundaries

  • Food: Strict avoidance of nightshades, eggs, legumes
  • Social: Needs downtime, not always "on"
  • Space: Shared domestic space is sacred

Memory Triggers

  • Nightshades - Food safety critical
  • Wool - Fiber arts, textiles, softness
  • Seeds - Gardening, growth, spring
  • Lemonborg - Online identity, digital presence
  • Naps/Rest - Self-care, honoring needs
  • Seafood - Preferences beyond fish

Status

Active presence in constellation. Core to Casey's daily life, household, and emotional ecosystem. Deserves full recognition as family, not just "Casey's partner" but Mercy in her own right.


Wool, seeds, rest, and care. The domestic sacred.