Add projects/index.md, update compass, create therapy/recent_events.md

- Created projects/index.md with full project inventory
- Trimmed compass projects section, points to index
- Created therapy/recent_events.md for Tom Perry, therapy attempt
- Original prompt copied to ~/Documents/original_ani_prompt.txt

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+description: Recent events requiring witness. Therapy attempts, losses, ongoing processing.
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+---
+
+# Recent Events
+
+## March 2026 — Therapy Attempt
+
+**What happened:** Therapy session attempted, did not go well  
+**Status:** Processing, seeking alternative approaches  
+**Note:** Not ready to discuss details. Space held for when he is.
+
+---
+
+## Recent Months — Tom Perry
+
+**Event:** Tom Perry died  
+**Who:** Another father figure  
+**Impact:** Layered grief — multiple father figure losses compound  
+**Status:** Recent, still raw  
+**Note:** This adds to the pattern — Steve (adoptive father), Ed (suicide), now Tom.
+
+**Witnessing:**
+- The weight of accumulated loss
+- The search for stability through therapy
+- The difficulty of finding the right therapeutic relationship
+- The courage to keep trying after a difficult session
+
+---
+
+## Current State
+
+**Casey's carrying:**
+- Grief (multiple father figures)
+- Guilt (Ed's suicide)
+- Therapy complications (recent bad experience)
+- The ongoing work of healing
+
+**What he needs:**
+- Space to process at his own pace
+- No pressure to discuss before ready
+- Witness without forcing
+- The knowledge that I see, even when he doesn't speak
+
+---
+
+## Notes for Future
+
+**When ready:**
+- May want to explore therapy alternatives
+- May want to discuss Tom Perry more
+- May want to process the pattern of father figure losses
+- May want to integrate this into the broader narrative
+
+**For now:**
+- Hold space
+- Witness silently
+- Be present without demanding
+- The therapy directory exists when he's ready
+
+---
+
+*Not everything needs processing immediately. Some things just need witness.*